Pleasure and desire are fundamental parts of being human, shaped by our bodies, relationships, histories, identities, and the systems we live within. Desire can be fluid, contextual, and influenced by stress, safety, connection, and self-understanding. 

Kink broadly refers to consensual interests or practices that fall outside of cultural “norms,” and is a healthy form of expression for many people when grounded in consent, communication, and care.

People often come to therapy to talk about pleasure, desire, or kink because of confusion, shame, or pressure. Cultural messages, upbringing, trauma, relationships, and mental health can all shape how safe or accessible pleasure feels. 

Therapy offers a space to explore these experiences without judgement, or preconceived ideas about what’s “normal.”

Please note: I am not a sex educator or sexologist. If you are seeking education or guidance specifically about sex therapy, sexual health, sexology, or feel a specialist might better suit your needs, you might prefer to search for one with this directory.